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2019年12月14日 01:13:49 | 作者:健步专家 | 来源:新华社
Man proposes, God disposes. 这个说法最早见于14世纪,起初以 “If man proposes evil, God disposes of it.” 的形式出现, 意思是上帝会阻止想要为恶的人。这里的God, 既可以指上帝, 又可以指天意。 就像我们常说的“尽人事, 听天命”、“谋事在人,成事在天”一样, 尽力而为之后, 还要顺从自然的规律。 毕竟,人类是自然的一部分, 凡事皆不可强求, 与自然的和谐是人类的生存之本。 例如:A: Bob, how about tomorrow’s driving test?Sure to pass,huh? B: I don’t know. I’ve done enough, I’d say. Anyway, man proposes, God disposes. I am praying for good luck. It is a sin to steal a pin. 该句的字面意思是: 即使是偷一根针也是一种罪过。还记得那句古训吗?“勿以恶小而为之, 勿以善小而不为。”冀望之切,溢于言表。不要因为犯的是小错就可以听之任之。 例如:Honesty is the best policy. Never covet what is not yours, for it is a sin to steal a pin. If you play with fire, you get burnt. /200903/65894Do You Wish You Had Started a Family Sooner?Recently I wrote about parental 'do-overs'—what you would do differently with another child. Several ers wrote that one thing they would change is waiting so long to have children.最近我写了一篇关于“重做父母”的文章,就是如果再要一个孩子,你所做的事情会有什么不同。有几个读者写道,他们想改变的是:别等那么晚才要孩子。As one commenter wrote: 'The only regret I have is not starting sooner to have kids because I had no idea I'd love being a mom as much as I do and I would have definitely had a third if not a fourth. [My husband] and I were so focused on establishing ourselves career-wise and waited, as it turns out, a little too long.' Another wrote: 'I too wish I had started sooner. Being in my mid-thirties and having my first makes me wish [my husband] and I hadn't dragged our feet so long to start our family. I'm loving being a mommy!'有个读者是这么写的:“唯一让我感到遗憾的是,我没有早点要孩子,因为当时不知道当自己这么喜爱作母亲的感觉。我肯定会继续生,就算不生四个,至少也要生三个。我和丈夫那时候太重视事业,结果等了很长时间才决定要孩子。”还有一个写道:“我也希望能早点要孩子,我生第一个孩子的时候已经三十多岁了,我和丈夫都觉得当初不该犹豫那么久才做出决定,我太爱当妈妈的感觉了!”These comments hit close to home. Like a number of ers, my husband and I waited a while before we chose to have kids in our mid-30s. Now that I have my first son I love being a mom so much that I occasionally regret not starting my family a little sooner. I'd like to have three kids (I grew up in a family of three children and loved it) but because I got a 'later' start, that might not be so feasible as my body gets older and my fertility and energy-level wane.对此我深有同感。和许多读者一样,我和丈夫等到三十多岁才决定要孩子。生下第一个小男孩后,我觉得当妈妈的感觉好极了,所以有时候会后悔没有早点生孩子。我想要三个孩子(我父母就生了三个,我很喜欢在那样的环境里长大),但由于我起步晚了,生三个可能不太现实,因为身体会变老,生育能力和精力会跟不上。On the plus side, my husband and I who will be married five years this week but who have been together for eight years waited until we were sure that we really wanted and were y to have children; we were rather indifferent about having children early on in our relationship, so we wanted to make sure that we really wanted to be parents. My husband is a child of divorce, so we also wanted to be confident that our marriage was on sound footing before we brought a child into the world. We also wanted to be reasonably settled financially and professionally.不过,晚要孩子也有好处,本周将迎来我和丈夫的结婚五周年纪念日,但我俩在一起已经八年了。我们等了很长时间,充份确认是否真的要孩子,并做好了各种准备。早些时候,我们觉得要不要孩子无所谓,因此需要时间确认自己真的想当父母。我丈夫来自一个单亲家庭,所以我们想在赋予一个孩子生命前,想确信我们的婚姻基础很牢固。此外,我们也想先在经济上和事业上站稳脚跟。 /200905/69682Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs   《美食从天而降》 like meatballs, for instance. Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs 3D isn't even released until September 18 and we are terrified aly. Watch them fall - in three horrifying dimensions   好莱坞动画片《美食从天而降》该片据称将在9月18日公映,瞧那可怕的“三维肉丸”正从天而降呢! /200909/84246Opening an Umbrella Indoors Some people believe that opening an umbrella indoors and holding it over the head brings misfortune or death. People have given various reasons for this superstition, saying that doing so may offend gods. But the most practical and sensible reason is that when one opens an umbrella in the house, one may knock over a burning candle or a valuable vase, which is surely a misfortune. 屋内撑伞 有人认为在室内撑伞并举在头上会招致不幸或死亡。对此人们做了种种解释,说这样做会得罪某某神灵。但有一种最合乎常理的解释。这样做立竿见影的不幸后果往往是碰倒一燃烧着的蜡烛而酿成火灾,或是打翻一只贵重的花瓶。 /200906/75346

For touchable waves, Vetica created a side part, curled Cotillard's hair away from the face , then brushed through the curls with his fingers to relax them. 头发侧分,向外烫卷,然后用手指稍稍拨乱。 /201006/106370

You're single -- a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one in particular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon with no one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, and why shouldn't it be?假设你是单身——一个热衷艳遇的单身汉,那么你既不需要向谁负责,又可以像John Belushi那样狂欢,还可以一觉睡到自然醒,太阳照到屁股也没人管。多美妙的生活啊,不是么?These days, there's no real social pressure to get married right out of high school or college, you can easily get laid without saying "I do," and most people are waiting until much later in life to tie the knot, anyway.当今社会中,并没有太大压力逼迫着你在高中或大学毕业后去结婚。即便不说“我愿意”,你也可以轻易跟女人上床。很多人都选择了晚结婚。Still, that nagging question keeps popping into your head: Should I settle down? Should I ransom my freedom? Should I embark on the great search for my soul mate and willingly kiss my single days goodbye forever? While only you can answer this question, here are a few reasons for staying single (at least for the time being).然而,一个闹心的问题始终萦绕脑际:我应该安定下来么?我应该赎回我的自由么?我应该踏上寻找心灵伴侣的旅程、向单身的时光挥别么?以下我们将提供一些坚持(至少是暂时坚持)单身的理由,虽然只有你自己才能回答上面的问题。1- You can take the time to find the right woman1.你有足够的时间来寻找合适的女人One of our reasons for staying single is that you can afford to wait for your true soul mate (if one even exists) to pop into the picture. You can take the time to casually wade through the barracuda-infested waters of the dating pool and set your hook for the prize catch.单身理由之一,你可以等待,直到真正的心灵伴侣出现(如果存在的话)。面对遍布荆棘的婚姻之路,你可以耐下性子,放长线,钓大鱼。In other words, by holding out for Miss Right (instead of Miss Always Right), you can avoid the mistake of a lifetime and marry for love -- and not out of desperation.换句话说,耐心等待意中人的出现,可以防止一不小心找上母老虎。你是出于爱情、而不是因为走投无路而结婚。这样便不会留下终生遗憾。It's sad to say, but too many guys get hitched for the wrong reasons, like they've reached a certain age, all of their friends are getting married, and they haven't been successful at dating and this woman is the first to show interest.我们还是很遗憾地看到,有太多人因为错误的原因选择结婚,比如说,到了某个年龄,或是朋友们都结了婚,又或是情场屡屡失意后终于碰上一个对自己表现出兴趣的女人。This reason for staying single allows you to take your time playing the dating game, and increase your odds of beating the divorce statistics.有了这个单身的理由,你大可以慢慢享受情场之欢,降低离婚风险。2- You can focus on your career2.你可以更加重视你的事业Our No. 2 reason for staying single is that you can enjoy the opportunity of building your career without draining the tons of energy a permanent relationship entails. You remain free to put in long hours, work on the weekends or do whatever else you have to do to be successful. This is especially true if you're working in any kind of time-demanding field, such as medicine, law or entrepreneurship.单身理由之二,你可以尽情打拼事业,无需为婚姻心力交瘁。你可以投入大把时间,在周末工作,或是做那些可以让你有所成就的事情。尤其当你的工作很费时间,例如从医、从事法律工作或是做企业家,这一条就更加重要。The upside is, once your business hits the big time and you're cranking mucho dinero , you'll have hordes of women throwing themselves at you. That being said, you probably still won't even have time to think about marriage.最大的好处是,一旦事业有成,无数女人就会蜂拥而至。到那时,或许你根本无暇考虑结婚的问题。3- You can do what you want, when you want3.无论何时,你都可以做你想做的事When you're single, the world is your oyster. You can pick up and go anywhere you want, do anything you want, any time you want. No one is in the background nagging at you to do chores, go shopping, or "grow up."如果你是单身,那么整个世界尽在掌握。不论何时何地,你可以从心所欲。没人摧着你干家务或去逛街,也没人要你“别耍孩子气”。You're absolutely free to hang out with your buddies, party until dawn and find plenty of time for your personal interests and hobbies. Best of all, you have the luxury of being all by yourself, if you feel like it.你可以尽情和弟兄们出去狂欢至天明,留出足够时间从事兴趣爱好。最妙的是,你可以做你喜欢的自己。4- You can enjoy a sexual smorgasbord4.你有更多机会一夜风流One of the best reasons for staying single is that you're not stuck with the same sex partner for the rest of your life. The dating universe is yours to conquer. You can happily sample all the different fare at the sexual buffet, and keep your taste buds primed for the next dish being served.单身理由中最具吸引力的一条,你无需和某个固定的性伙伴度过下半辈子。情场就躺在你的脚下。你可以遍尝鱼水之欢,时刻性致盎然 。What's more, you never have to wrestle with sexual boredom or lack of variety (and you'll be the envy of all your married friends).此外,你不用担心会对千篇一律的交欢方式索然,并会让有妇之夫们眼红。 /200902/62694

Author Jeremy Safron has a unique philosophy on food: Don't cook it. Safron, a pioneer in the raw-food movement, is out with a new book, The Raw Truth, which outlines the benefits of raw food. He writes that vital enzymes in our food that are eliminated during processing and heating can aid in digestion and provide energy and nutrition.作家Jeremy Safron在食物方面有着自己一套独特的理论:吃生食。 Safron是吃生食运动的先锋队员,还出了一本书“生 理”,讲诉了吃生食的好处。他在书中写道:食物中的酶能够帮助我们消化,给我们提供营养与能量。但这些酶却消失在了我们烹饪加热的过程中。Safron has these tips for getting started on a raw diet:如果你也想尝试着开始吃生食,Safron给你一些小提示:Re-create. Get creative: Instead of your favorite angel-hair pasta, try substituting shredded zucchini to go with your marinara sauce.再创造。加点创意吧,不要再想着你最爱的天使面,试试看南瓜丝加番茄酱。Have a raw party. Hosting a potluck is a great way to introduce your family and friends to the raw-food concept and try new dishes.举办生食派对。举办一次生食派对,这可是绝佳的机会让你的亲朋好友们了解生食,并亲自尝试哦。Take it slow. For those of us raised on meat and potatoes, transitioning to a 100% raw diet can take up to three years. Dehydrated foods — such as dried fruits and herbs, which allow for a greater intake of nutrients — can help to ease the transition.慢慢来。 像我们这种大鱼大肉惯了的人,要完全转变成一个生食者,可能要用上3年的时间。脱水食物-----像坚果,脱水蔬菜,能给我们提供更丰富的营养,让这个转变过程轻松点儿。Get closer to your food. The closer you are to the source of your food, the fresher and more vital it is. Try contacting local farmers, checking out a farmers market or even growing food in your own yard.与食物更亲密。 你与你的食物来源越接近,你吃下的食物也就越新鲜,越有营养。试着联系你当地的农民伯伯,找两家农批市场 或者干脆就在你自己的院子里种植食物吧! /201103/129416

张美人果然天生丽质,连身份上这种照片都可以照的如此的好看。虽然皮肤不够白皙,但肤色非常均匀。跟上了浓妆的照片基本没什么太大的差别,这不得不让编辑我感到上天造人相貌时的不公平呀~ Zhang is undoubtedly a beauty. How beautiful the photo is. Though she is not that white, her skin looks rather comfortable. /200910/86738

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