2019年12月10日 14:41:33|来源:国际在线|编辑:中医热点
Everybody talks about happiness these days.最近大家都在谈论着快乐。I had somebody count the number of books with ;happiness; in the title published in the last five years在过去的五年里,我请人数了近年来有多本书的书名中提到“快乐”,and they gave up after about 40, and there were many more.他们数到大约有40本,而且还有更多没数到的。There is a huge wave of interest in happiness, among researchers.现今越来越多研究者都开始对快乐这个议题产生兴趣。There is a lot of happiness coaching.而且还有很多的“快乐教练”授课。Everybody would like to make people happier.让其他人更快乐是他们的宗旨。But in spite of all this flood of work,虽然此类工作多如牛毛,there are several cognitive traps that sort of make it almost impossible to think straight about happiness.但现仍存在几个认知上的陷阱,这些陷阱将会增加使人领悟快乐本质的难度。And my talk today will be mostly about these cognitive traps.我今天将主要谈论这些认知陷阱。This applies to laypeople thinking about their own happiness,这些陷阱既会影响到一般人对自身快乐的观感,and it applies to scholars thinking about happiness,而且也会影响到学者对快乐的判断,because it turns out were just as messed up as anybody else is.因为人无完人,我们皆会出错。The first of these traps is a reluctance to admit complexity.第一个陷阱是不愿意去承认快乐的复杂性。It turns out that the word ;happiness; is just not a useful word anymore,事实明快乐这个词已不再是常用词汇了,because we apply it to too many different things.因为我们已用其来诠释太多的事物了。I think there is one particular meaning to which we might restrict it,我想我们应该限定它的意思,but by and large, this is something that well have to give up不过,一般而言,我们得放弃这个想法and well have to adopt the more complicated view of what well-being is.并用更复杂的观点来看何谓快乐生活。201610/471658And yet, I knew from the work I had done that if he had any of the things we were about to start testing for,我的工作经验让我得知,如果经过哪些检查,发现他有什么问题,that those would ultimately be his identity,and if they were his identity they would become my identity,that that illness was going to take a very different shape as it unfolded.那将永久成为他的特性,如果这是他的特性,也将会是我的特性,这将不同于病症最初呈现的那样。We took him to the MRI machine, we took him to the CAT scanner,我们带他做核磁共振,带他做计算机化X射线轴向分层造影,we took this day-old child and gave him over for an arterial blood draw.我们带着这个出生仅一天的孩子做动脉抽血。We felt helpless.我们感到无助。And at the end of five hours,五个小时后,they said that his brain was completely clear and that he was by then extending his legs correctly.医生们说他的大脑完全没问题,也可以完全正常伸展他的双腿。And when I asked the pediatrician what had been going on,she said she thought in the morning he had probably had a cramp.当我问儿科医生这是怎么回事,她说,她觉得早上他可能抽筋了。But I thought how my mother was right.我认为我的母亲是正确的。I thought, the love you have for your children is unlike any other feeling in the world,我以为你对自己孩子的爱是不同于世界上任何其他感觉的,and until you have children, you dont know what it feels like.直到你有孩子,你才知道那是什么样的感觉。I think children had ensnared me the moment I connected fatherhood with loss.我想是孩子让我,认为自己不是个称职的父亲。But Im not sure I would have noticed that if I hadnt been so in the thick of this research project of mine.但我不确定自己会注意到,要不是我做了这么繁复的研究项目,Id encountered so much strange love,and I fell very naturally into its bewitching patterns.我遇到了太多奇怪的爱,然后我很自然地陷入其迷人的模式。And I saw how splendor can illuminate even the most abject vulnerabilities.我看到光如何照亮最不幸的脆弱之处。During these 10 years, I had witnessed and learned the terrifying joy of unbearable responsibility,在这 10 年期间,我曾目睹和了解到,那些难以承受的责任,and I had come to see how it conquers everything else.我也看到了它如何克一切苦难。And while I had sometimes thought the parents I was interviewing were fools,我曾经有时会想,我正在采访的父母是傻瓜,enslaving themselves to a lifetimes journey with their thankless children and trying to breed identity out of misery,让自己踏上给不知感恩的孩子们一生为奴的旅程,试图从痛苦中获得身份认同,我意识到,从研究开始那天起,我已建造了一块踏板,I realized that day that my research had built me a plank and that I was y to join them on their ship.Thank you.随时准备着与他们同舟共济。谢谢。201604/438148Ladies and gentlemen, Dare to dream that the dawn is breaking on an independent ed Kingdom. This, if the predictions now are right, this will be a victory for real people, a victory for ordinary people, a victory for decent people. We have fought, we have fought against the multinationals, we have fought against the big merchant banks, we have fought against big politics, we have fought against lies, corruption and deceit. And today, honesty, decency and belief in nation, I think now is going to win. And we will have done it, we will have done it without having to fight, without a single bullet being fired, we will have done it by damn hard work on the ground, by people like my friend Mr. Banks here, and by people in the Labour Party and the Conservative Party and of UKIP and no party. And well have done it not just for ourselves, well have done it for the whole of Europe. I hope this victory brings down this failed project and leads us to a Europe of sovereign nation states, trading together, being friends together, cooperating together, and lets get rid of the flag, the anthem, Brussels, and all that has gone wrong. Let June 23 go down in our history as our independence day.201607/455355

美国人每天说的话(日常俚语) 11

点击此处下载音频HI! 大家好,欢迎光临广播学口语,在中国人形容有人花钱大手大脚有个词语叫"挥金如土",在英国则说是挥金如水.这是为什么呢?让我们来看一下今天要学习的句子:(音乐)"like water"像水一样。如果我们说一个人能喝酒,就是他喝酒就跟喝水一样o"like water"有"大量的无节制"的意思。在英语中要注意:挥金如土,也是和水有关系的。在我们国家,酒有着悠久的历史,可以叫做酒文化吧。酒在各种party中是不能少的。The wine flew like water at the party. (大家开怀畅饮,酒如流水。)酒会是一项很大的开。不过对于有钱人来说,这又算得了什么呢。但是如果你没有钱,那可就不一样了:Although he is not earning much, he spends money like water. (他虽赚不到钱,但他还是挥金如水。) 那不透才怪呢!(音乐)我们学过"in hot water""有麻烦了,处于水深火热之中"。那么摆脱麻烦怎么说呢? "above water",在水面上面。就可以理解为"摆脱困境,不欠债"。Although he spends money like water he can keep his head above water, for he has a father made of money. (虽然他挥金如土,但他还不至于欠债.因为他有一个很有钱的爸爸。) 可即使老爸再有钱,自己不劳动,总有坐吃山空的一天。所以我们还看好小张的作法:He can keep his head above water although he is not earning much.(虽然他赚钱不多,但能做到不欠债)(音乐)好了,让我们回忆一下我们今天所学习的内容:(1)The wine flew like water at the party. (在宴会上大家开怀畅饮,酒如流水。)(2)He can keep his head above water although he is not earning much. (虽然他赚钱不多,但能做到不欠债。)Ok! Letrsquo;s stop here. See you next time! /200605/7242

即学即用英语会话词典B部分:分别 即学即用英语会话词典文本下载即学即用英语会话词典这部词典着眼日常生活、学习、工作等语言环境,囊括了当今美国最最简洁、最地道的日常口语表达方式。本词典获得2002年全国优秀畅销书奖 /200706/15004

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