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  As far as stereotypes go, a wandering eye and the urge to jump into bed with multiple partners seems to be built into a man#39;s DNA, but when it comes to cheating, the sexes are created more equally than we think. (Cough, Kristen Stewart, cough.) Renee Lee, a relationship expert with a masters in psychology, dishes out five reasons why women cheat.1. Going Through A Transition;If it is graduating, turning a certain age, losing a parent or advancing the relationship status, women become introspective,; explains Lee. ;Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged or graduating, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going or where she is in it. The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through.;2. Not Feeling Adequately CelebratedWe#39;ve all been here: ;May it be getting a promotion, organizing a fundraiser, or making Thanksgiving dinner for a party of 20, men often make the misstep of ;not complimenting their partner#39;s achievements,; Lee says. ;Women seek an emotional connection that their partner notices them, is proud of their achievements, and appreciates what they do, so when they aren#39;t getting this at home the residual effects lead to feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, depression, and restlessness.;And that#39;s when they could go looking for it elsewhere. ;When you are living in the day to day with someone, it is challenging to step outside a situation and notice the things that do matter to someone,; adds Lee ;As this wears down over time, so as soon as the woman encounters someone who ignites the spark they are lacking at home, they equate it to an emotional connection and seek companionship with someone else.;3. Feeling A Relationship Ending;When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow,; Lee reasons for a woman#39;s infidelity. ;If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it.;4. It#39;s Just Not Fun Anymore...But it#39;s too hard to pull the plug. ;When you don#39;t laugh, you don#39;t love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked,; Lee explains, simply. ;When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon.;5. It#39;s Boring In The BedroomMen aren#39;t the only ones who need to spice things up. ;Women need to feel desired!; Lee declares. ;If she is not getting any, enough, or nothing to talk about, women start to feel a sexual void. With the popularity of books such as Fifty Shades of Grey, television shows, or listening to friends talk about their fun single trysts, women have that moment when they compare their love life at home to what the rest of the world seems to be experiencing.; And that#39;s when she may start to wonder what she#39;s missing.;Though it is easy to pinpoint the flaws in one#39;s sex life, it is often hard to make the changes needed to correct them,; adds Lee. ;This creates a temptation in women to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere with someone they don#39;t have the baggage with and can be more uninhibited.;Now you know why women cheat. But we say, if you#39;re thinking about cheating, just break up with the guy, before you move on to a new one.说到男性,大多数人都会觉得他们骨子里是欲望动物:眼神游离不定,还想要拥有多位性伴侣。但是,说到出轨,也许男女比我们想象得更加“平等”。(比如克里斯汀斯图尔特)心理学硕士、两性关系专家蕾妮-李给出了以下5个女性出轨的理由。1、正在经历转变“如果正面临毕业,到了某个年纪,失去至亲或感情状态更进一步,女性会开始反思自己。”蕾妮解释道,“即使这些是她想要的,比如订婚或者毕业,但这些转变还是会在内心激起波澜,她们不禁会思考应该何去何从,或者她自身的状态。这些变化带来的不快会使人一时冲动去另寻他人来分散自己的注意力,让自己暂时逃避目前的处境。”2、觉得不够被重视我们都有过这样的情况:“工作上得到晋升,组织了一次募捐活动,又或者给20人聚会准备感恩节晚餐,男性常忽略的一点是:没有好好赞扬妻子的成就。”蕾妮说,“女性总是希望她们的丈夫能给予她们更多关注,为她们的成就而自豪,并感谢她们的付出。所以,当她们在家里得不到这些情感需求时,她们会觉得受挫、不满、沮丧、不安。”这时候她们就可能会另寻关心。“当你日复一日地和另一半一起生活后,经常会忽视掉对另一半真正重要的事情。”蕾妮补充道,“随着时间的流逝,一旦女性此时遇到一个可以弥补这些的男性,她们就会视之为感情,进而想和对方进一步发展关系。”3、觉得感情关系走到尽头“当一个女性觉得这段感情快要枯萎,不管是自己还是对方所致,她可能会向外寻求慰藉来填补目前的空虚,使自己不至于受到太严重的打击。”蕾妮在分析女性的背叛时,认为“如果她是那个想要分手的人,那她可能会用这种策略来挑战自己同时探探风头,然后寻思是否能这样做。”4、生活没有欢乐...但却很难停下来。“当你们之间没有了笑声,没有了爱……欢笑是一段关系中很重要的元素,但却经常被忽略。”蕾妮简单地解释道。“当紧张压抑成为每天的主旋律时,女方会觉得不开心。当她们遇到一位可以共度美好时光的同事或朋友时,她们会突然发现这正是目前的感情关系里所没有的,因而会甘愿冒险。”5、床上生活较枯燥。并不是只有男性需要调动情趣。“女性也需要得到满足。”蕾妮声称,“如果她的需求得不到满足,女性会开始感到性空虚。”在女性阅读《五十度灰》等热门书籍、观看电视节目、或听朋友聊单独约会的乐趣时,会将自己的爱情生活和其他人相比较。”蕾妮补充道,“这个时候她会想想自己错过了什么。”“尽管很容易就可以找出性生活方面的不足之处,但想要改正过来却有些难。”蕾妮补充道,“这会诱使一些女性出去另寻无拘无束的性满足。”现在你明白了为什么女性会出轨。但是如果你也正打算出轨,先去和另一半分手吧,然后再去找下一位。



  Three retirees, each with a hearing loss, were taking a walk one fine March day.有三个退休的老人,都患有重听。三月里风和日丽的一天,他们在一起散步。One remarked to the other, ;Windy, ain#39;t it?;其中一个人对另一个人说:“这天儿风有点儿大,是吧?”;No,; the second man replied, ;It#39;s Thursday.;“不是,”第二个人回答道,“今天是星期四。”And the third man chimed in, ;So am I. Let#39;s have a coke.;第三个人插话进来说:“我也是,去买瓶可乐吧。”

  这是关于一个女孩、女人、女性的成长漫画On A Claire Day:亲情、友情、爱情;家庭,朋友、婚姻,工作,生活……一切的一切~今日嘱咐:骑着单车,徐徐下坡,微风阵阵,烦恼无多!译者:koogle /201305/237375


  Chew Your Food SlowlyPeople who consume food more slowly—and ignore those “I’m hungry” urges—eat less overall than those who devour their meals. Research has found that impatient people are more likely to be overweight, possibly because of their inability to delay gratification at the dinner table. This practice can help you in other areas of life as well: By eating slowly, you can train yourself to be less impulsive and more patient in general.细嚼慢咽那些细嚼慢咽且不理会“我饿了”欲望的人总体上比那些狼吞虎咽的人吃得少。研究发现不耐烦的人更容易超重,可能是因为他们在餐桌上无法延长满足。这一练习也可以在生活的其它领域帮到你:通过慢慢吃,大体上你可以训练自己少些冲动多些耐心。Experience Different CulturesWhen you travel the world, you find out that many cultures aren’t as punctual and perfectionistic as ours, and encountering those perspectives can mellow you. To work on your patience closer to home, try visiting an area populated by people of a different culture (such as a city’s Chinatown) or take part in a festival held by an immigrant community.体验不同文化当你周游世界时,你会发现很多文化不像我们的文化那样守时和完美主义,遭遇这些观念可以使你成熟。要在离家更近的地方磨练你的耐心,就去尝试探访居住着不同文化人群的地区 (如一个城市中的唐人街)或参加移民社区举办的节日。Laugh at YourselfI’m a newspaper columnist and my husband is a politician, so both of us must be willing to converse with strangers when we’re eating out or shopping for groceries. In the rare moments when people are obnoxious (like the time a woman told me that I needed to get Botox), I can get impatient. But instead of being rude to the person, I formulate a joke, usually at my own expense.自嘲我是一名报纸的专栏作家,我的丈夫是一名政治家,所以当我们外出吃饭或买杂货时,我们俩必须愿意与陌生人交谈。在人们令人讨厌的那样为数不多的时候(就像有次一个女人告诉我需要去打肉毒杆菌),我可以不耐烦。但是除了粗鲁对人,我会编一个笑话,通常是自嘲。Find a DistractionBeing out on the road for weeks on end can certainly test your patience. My wife and I—we drive as a team—have to deal with other drivers and the annoyances of traffic jams, and it’s natural to be anxious in these moments. We overcome that feeling by giving each other something else to think about. For example, my wife tells jokes and catches me up on the latest Facebook posts from friends. Or I’ll talk to my dogs (they also travel with us). Those quick moments of distraction recharge me, and I can again focus on the road without being irritated.找到分心之处在路上连续几周最终一定可以测试你的耐心。我和妻子——我们作为一个团队来开车,不得不与应对其他司机和恼人的交通堵塞,这种时候很自然会焦躁。我们通过让彼此思考其它一些东西来摆脱这种感觉。例如我的妻子会讲笑话,在脸谱网上朋友最新的帖子上了解我的近况。或者我会和我的说话(他们也和我们一起旅行)。那些分心的短暂时刻让我得到休整,我可以不发火地再次集中到路上。Stop Imagining the IdealI often grow impatient when I want to be in control of a situation. To avoid getting antsy when I am writing and can’t find specific words for my thoughts, I try to practice self-compassion. I tell myself that I’m not going to quit even if I become frustrated. I’ll say out loud, “You’re not perfect, but that’s OK. Writing can be a messy process, and it’s not ideal, but you can handle it.” Talking to yourself may feel awkward and goofy, but it quells that feeling of impatience.停止往好处想当我想控制局面时我经常失去耐心。为了避免写作时文思短路的坐立不安,我尝试去实践自我同情。我告诉自己即使受挫我也不会放弃。我会大声说,“你不是完美的,但没关系。写作可以是一个混乱的过程,它不是理想的,但你可以应对它。”与你自己交谈可能会感到尴尬和愚蠢,但它能减轻不耐烦的感觉。 /201304/235494。



  美国《》杂志创刊于1953年。1953年12月《》杂志出版第一期,为月刊,主要面向广大男性读者。关于美国人的文化,我们专门向上海外教网的外教Ashley请教了以下问题:1、How widely is Playboy known is the U.S? 《》在美国有多流行?几乎所有的美国人都知道《》杂志,不论男女,它是一本月刊(Monthly)。2、Is Playboy a porn magazine? 《》杂志算色情杂志吗?Does Playboy contain lots of porn pictures and words? 《》杂志中是否充斥着许多色情的图片和文字?是的,我想《》应该算是色情杂志,其中有许多比较裸露的(naked)的图片。3、Is there any restriction for the sale of Playboy? (such as not to kids, etc.)销售《》是否有一些限制呢?(比如不允许卖给孩子等等。)是的,是有一些限制的,将《》卖给18岁以下的孩子在美国将被视为非法的。就像卖香烟一样,如果您看上去像个孩子,您会被要求出示您的身份(ID)以明您可以购买该杂志,否则您是无法买到的。当然也有一些小贩为了利益照样将《》卖给一些未成年人,这种现象在许多国家都存在。4、Is Playboy more expensive than any other magazines?《》要比其他的杂志贵一些吗?是的,《》显得要贵一些。美国大部分的月刊的内页在150-250,价格约2-3.5美元。5、 Is there another magazine in the US serving in the same way as Playboy? 在美国还有和《》类似的杂志吗?有的比如阁楼风情杂志。 /201304/234137

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